WHAT'S WAITING FOR YOU ON THE OTHER SIDE...


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This is a four-month intensive coaching experience for the ambitious man with an anxious heart who has almost everything...Â
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âď¸ You have a full life - you travel, keep yourself in great shape and not short on friends.
đŤ Youâre the friend everyone turns to for advice.
đ Youâve read all the books & taken courses.
But when it comes to love?
You still find yourself attracted to emotionally unavailable women.
You get caught in confusing situationships.
And no matter how âhealedâ you think you are â you're still afraid to open your heart in case you get hurt again.Â
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Youâre a self-aware guy.
Youâve done the research. You know your attachment style. Youâve probably read the books, listened to the podcasts, maybe even tried therapy...
But you tend to intellectualise everything đ
So thereâs still a gap between what you understand â and what you feel.
Thatâs where mentorship comes in đĽ
Because youâre not starting from zero.
Youâve already outgrown old patterns. Youâve made progress.
Now youâre ready to take the next step â to become the grounded, secure man you are.
Youâre ready to stop feeling ashamed when that wave of anxiety hits after she hasnât texted back.
Youâre ready to lead with clarity, focus and confidence â not fear or overthinking.
Youâre ready to stop chasing and start attracting real, healthy love.

đTHISÂ MENTORSHIP IS FORÂ THE MAN WHO:
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Is aware of his limitations and is ready to adopt new beliefs and gain confidence.
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Feels ashamed for having relationship anxiety and is ready become more grounded.Â
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Is done with women who send mixed signals and runs away at the first sign of emotion but still finds himself attracted to emotional unavailability.
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Feels powerful in his career, friendship group, personal growth â but still loses himself in love.
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Craves deep, emotionally safe connection without the people-pleasing.
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Isnât afraid of doing the inner work â you see it as the ultimate challenge and reward!Â
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Desires a conscious relationship that matches his energy.Â

đŤ WHAT'S INCLUDED IN THIS JOURNEY:
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⨠16 x Weekly 60-Minute 1:1 Calls (on Zoom)
Deep, personalized coaching to help you shift patterns, experience co-regulation, and embody your secure self in real-time.
⨠MonâFri Voice & Text Support (via Voxer)
Because transformation doesnât only happen on the call. It's happen through integration. Iâm in your back pocket for the moments in-between â when the triggers, spirals, or breakthroughs arise.
⨠Private Healing Portal
Access to bonus tools, guided meditations, embodiment practices, and resources that deepen your integration between sessions.
⨠A Customized Mentorship Experience
This isnât a plug-and-play program. Weâll co-create a path tailored to your relationship goals, attachment style, nervous system, and vision.
⨠Bonus Workshop Library
Get instant access to powerful past workshops for added support and self-study along the way.
⨠Sami as Your Personal Coach + Guide
Iâll be walking with you through every step of this journey â supporting your growth, holding your truth, and reminding you who you really are when the fear creeps in.

THE SECURE MAN YOU'LL BECOME:
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â°ď¸ He knows how to stay calm when he doesn't get that text back â without spiraling into shame or panic.
â°ď¸Â He shows up in dating with charm and confidence without worrying whether she will like him - he's already know's he's a fricking catch!Â
â°ď¸Â He sets boundaries with confidence, speaks his truth without over-explaining, and doesnât shrink or perform for love.
â°ď¸Â He no longer chases the unavailable or loses himself in relationships â he knows how to receive love without fear of abandonment.Â
â°ď¸ He is able to work through triggers and return to his secure state again and again without the overwhelm.
đĽ Hear it from the men whoâve been through this programâŚ
Click below to watch real client stories and transformations from inside the Secure Man 1:1 youMentorship to see what is possible for you! đŞ
đŽ THE METHOD BEHIND THE MAGIC!Â
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In our time together, weâll weave together tools from psychology, somatics, inner child healing, spirituality, and relational repair so that youâre not just understanding your patterns â youâre rewiring them at the root. Youâll be held in a space where all parts of you are welcome. Here are some of the practices that will make up your program:Â

Subconscious Reprogramming.
The beliefs, stories and experiences that we hold is how we see the world. This modalities allows us to explore the depths of your subconscious mind and unlearn our conditioning so we can re-write our programming.

Nervous System Regulation.
Becoming BFFs with your feelings. Understanding how the nervous system works and working with somatic tools will support you to regulate overwhelming emotions and unlock the door to emotional freedom!

Inner Child Work.Â
Our inner child represents our neglected needs and adaptive systems we've put in place to protect ourselves from harm. By understanding the inner child, we can tend to triggers and fears with conscious compassion over self criticism and shame.Â

Boundary Exploration.Â
Our boundaries is what allows us and others to feel safe, loved and respected in our relationships. When we lack or overly-assert boundaries, this causes disconnection. Here, we learn how to understand, set, keep and respect healthy boundaries.

Conscious Communication.Â
By implementing non-violent communication methods, we will explore fears and blocks around authentic expression and learn the tools to have open, honest and difficult conversations with others and also ourselves with ease and confidence.

Shadow Work / IFS.
We all have different parts of our psyche, including our shadows that we suppress, judge and expel from our conscious. By embracing and accepting all parts of ourselvesâboth light and darkâwe become more whole and authentically ourselves.Â
đđź MEET YOUR MENTOR
 Hey! Iâm Samantha (Sami for short!) I am a certified Attachment Trauma Specialist, Relationship Coach, creator of the Securely Attached method, and host of the Relationship Rehab Podcast.
I built this mentorship for the men who are struggling with anxious attachment but are too ashamed to talk to anyone about it.Â
There's an extra layer of shame that surrounds men when it comes to anxious attachment. Together, we will remove that as we re-learn new behaviours and beliefs you can feel more secure and grounded in your relationships.Â
I know what itâs like...
To feel disheartened when the confident version of yourself disappears the moment you start catching feelings.
The Secure Man 1:1 Mentorship is what has helped many of my male clients move from overthinking to feeling calm and confident in their love life.Â
It's got structure, soul, strategy, and someone in your corner who deeply gets it đ¤đź
So if youâre ready to lead yourself through your next evolution in love â not from fear or force, but from your masculine wholeness â you are in the right place.
I would be honored to be your coach and guide you through this incredibly life-changing transformation. Donât hesitate to reach out to me with any questions or concerns.Â
READY TO APPLY? đ
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Spots for The Secure Man 1:1 Mentorship are limited and intentionally intimate.Â
I only work with a small number of private clients at a time to give you my full energy, presence, and support.
If your heart is saying this is the next level â I invite you to apply.
Together, weâll explore if this mentorship is the right fit for you.
Your next step is to fill out the application form. I will review your application within 24 hours and then reach out via email to book a connection call if it aligns.
Apply now by clicking the button below â¨
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