A 16-week private coaching program to heal your attachment patterns and manage relationship anxiety so you can step into Secure Queen/King energy 👑 without chasing, overthinking, or losing yourself in love.

WHAT'S POSSIBLE FOR YOU:

A no-fluff, high-touch 1:1 coaching experience for the ambitious, high-functioning anxious heart who looks like they have it all together
... 

🌟 You’re a powerhouse in your career.

đŸ’ȘđŸŒ You’re killing it in the gym. 

đŸ§˜đŸœâ€â™€ïž You're doing the morning routines.

đŸ«‚ You’re the friend everyone turns to for advice.

📚 You’ve read and listened to a hundred books and podcasts on attachment styles.

But when it comes to love?

You find yourself enrolling in The Healing Heartbreak Club one too many times.

You're still attracted to emotionally unavailable avoidant partners. 

You keep getting caught in confusing situationship cycles.

And no matter how “healed” you think you are — your confidence still disappears the moment you catch feelings. 

You've read "Attached", went to a breath-work class and bought all the crystals... 

But there’s still a gap between what you know and what you feel.

That’s where the deep work begins đŸȘ„

Because you’re not starting from scratch.

You’ve already broken some cycles most people never look at. 

Now? You’re ready for your next evolution — the one where love doesn’t mean losing yourself đŸŠâ€đŸ”„

Because you know that you won't find your happiness and peace in a relationship... It's within you. 

You’re ready to STOP performing for love and feel safe being fully seen.

You’re ready to lead with self-worth, not anxiety.

You’re ready to stop chasing and start receiving.

YOU'RE READY TO BECOME SECURELY ATTACHED đŸ„‚

COS I GET IT...

I know what it feels like to lie awake at 2 a.m, staring at your phone, stalking social media, re-reading messages wondering why they aren’t texting you back... 💔

To try and keep your sh*t together in work while your heart is breaking and they’ve already moved on to the next one. 

To be the confident, capable friend that everyone comes to for advice, only to go home to a toxic partner who makes you feel worthless. 

I’ve been the woman who could lead a team meeting with confidence and still cry in the shower because the man I loved couldn’t love me back.

I was exhausted with my patterns. The avoidants, the almosts, the men who wanted my energy but called me “too much” cos they couldn’t handle my depth. 


So I did what every ambitious overachiever does: I made healing a full-time job. I read the books, devoured the podcasts, did the courses, talked to everyone who was willing to hear about my next relationship drama

After years of trial and error, this is what I learnt:

❌ You can’t think your way out of attachment trauma.

 âŒ You can’t positively-affirm your way into nervous-system regulation.

At some point, you have to go where your mind can’t protect you. 

Into the body, into the shadows, into the part of you that becomes hypervigilant for disaster when love feels too good to be true. 

That’s where I learned what it really means to "do to the work on my attachment style".

To build self-love so deep it lives in my bones.

To stop performing, to stop chasing, to stop abandoning myself in the name of love.

From that place, I stopped finding chaos exciting and started feeling drawn to secure, grounded men because I’d built that security within myself.

đŸ‘‹đŸŒ Bare minimum effort just didn’t cut it anymore.

Everything I teach inside The 1:1 Program comes from that journey.

For many of my clients, I become the first truly secure relationship in their life.

The mirror that helps them see what’s possible when safety replaces survival.

So if you’re ready to walk with me into your next evolution in love, to stop chasing emotionally unavailable connections and start choosing relationships that meet you fully


 You’re in the right place.

I’d be honored to walk beside you in this work ❀

WHAT WE'LL DO TOGETHER:

BE WARNED: This isn't just another cookie-cutter program - it's an experience where real transformation happens. Not through information overload, but through intensive support, integration, and deep emotional safety.

 âœš 16 x Weekly 60-Minute 1:1 Calls (on Zoom)
Personalized coaching sessions to shift old attachment patterns, experience co-regulation, and practice what secure love actually feels like — in your body, not just your head.

✹ Mon–Fri Voice & Text Support (via Voxer)
Because the work doesn’t stop when the call ends. I’m in your back pocket for the moments between sessions — the triggers, the spirals, the breakthroughs, the “what the hell just happened” moments — so you’re never navigating them alone.

✹ Private Healing Portal
A library of bonus tools, guided meditations, embodiment practices, and resources to help you deepen your integration and anchor safety at your own pace.

✹ A Tailored Coaching Experience
This isn’t a one-size-fits-all process. Together, we’ll co-create a path that is FOR you — your attachment style, nervous system, relationship goals, and personal vision. You bring the truth; I’ll bring the tools.

✹ Me as your Coach & Cheerleader
You’ll have me walking beside you through every phase of this work — holding space, keeping you accountable, and reminding you who the hell you are when fear tries to make you forget.

đŸŽ„ CLIENT SUCCESS STORIES!

But don't just take my word for it! Watch real client stories and transformations on YouTube & The Relationship Rehab Podcast to see what is possible for you! đŸȘ„

READY TO DITCH THE DRAMA & BECOME SECURE?

This is an intimate, intentional, high-touch coaching experience.

I only work with a small number of private clients at a time so you get my full energy, presence, and support throughout this life-changing journey.

If your heart is saying this is the next level — I invite you to apply.

Together, we’ll explore if this program aligns with the season of healing and expansion you’re in. 

Your next step is book in a free consultation call. This is NOT a free coaching call, it's an opportunity for us to get to know each other, ask questions, and to find out more about the program. You will also be prompted to answer some questions so I can guide our call smoothly. 

Your next chapter of secure, grounded, self-led love starts here. đŸ’«
Book in your call now to begin your 1:1 journey.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

How do I know that this program is right for me?

If you’re feeling the pull — trust that. This mentorship is for women who have already started doing the work and are now ready to experience real change in love and in life. If you're tired of loops, self-doubt, surface-level dating advice and ready to call in that aligned relationship through self love â€” this is your next step. We will also have a connection call before you decide to sign up so we can both feel into what it would be like to work together. 

I’m scared to invest. What if it doesn’t work?

That fear is valid — maybe you've been burnt in the past or have some limiting beliefs around money. You're not alone with these fears. This is very normal! If you're not satisfied with the program, you can opt out at any time. I want this to work for you and if it isn't, then it's not the right container. 

Is this program open to men?

Yes, I work with clients who are women, men and non-binary individuals.

I have an avoidant attachment, can we work together?

Absolutely! I'm certified and experienced in working with individuals who identify with either anxious-preoccupied, dismissive avoidant or fearful-avoidant attachment styles. 

What is the cost of the program and do you offer payment plans?

The cost of the program will be discussed on the consultation call and yes, there are monthly payment plans available. 

How is this different from therapy and other coaching programs?

This program bridges the gap between therapy and coaching by combining therapeutic modalities with coaching principles. Unlike therapy, we work WITH the past and it's influence as opposed to working ON your past in order to change your present reality and move you towards your goals. My unique method is a cocktail of psychological practices and spiritual rituals for a holistic, rounded approach. 

What is your professional training/background?

I have a Bachelors degree in Criminology Psychology with honours and currently studying a Masters degree Level 7 in Somatic Trauma-Informed Leadership & Coaching.

I am also a certified Relationship Coach specialising in Integrated Attachment Theory from The Personal Development School.

For five years, I worked as a Child Welfare Officer in Social Services and have been professionally trained in Child Protection, Emotional Intelligence, Non-Violent Communication and Conflict Management, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Domestic Violence Intervention, the list goes on!

Do you offer couples coaching?

Yes I do! I typically work with couples that are experiencing anxious-avoidant dynamics. Together, we invite both of you to step into doing the work individually and together. 

Can this program be shortened or extended?

Unless agreed in advance, I require a 16 week commitment to allow space for the work to in integrated on a mind, body and soul level. At the end of the program, we will evaluate your progress and discuss further options for maintenance support.

Do you offer refunds or a cancellation policy?

There is a 24 hour grace period for cancellation. After that, all sales are final. 

What if I’m not dating anyone right now?

That’s actually the perfect time to do this work! The Secure Woman Mentorship helps you build your internal foundation before you step into your next relationship — so you can attract and receive the love you’re truly meant for without being overly triggered or pre-occupied with a relationship. 

What if I’m already in a relationship?

Beautiful. This mentorship will help you show up more securely, communicate your needs, and shift out of anxious or avoidant dynamics. Many clients experience deeper intimacy and healing within their relationships.

Can I message you before I apply?

Absolutely! I'd love you to! DM me on Instagram @samireedcleaver — I’m happy to answer any questions and have a conversation before booking a call.