THIS IS A DETOX.
We’re done with the extreme intoxicating highs and crashing lows.
We’re no longer available for love that leaves us broken.
We’re ready to heal our addiction to toxic love.
We’re taking back our power to love ourselves completely and put ourselves FIRST.
SECURE IN LOVE is an 8-week group program for women who are ready to move from feeling insecure, small, and anxious to feeling safe, confident, and worthy in themselves and in romantic relationships.
TO BE SECURE IN LOVE MEANS:
✨ Raising your standards and allowing yourself to want and have MORE from your love life than partners who are unsure about you.
✨ To take responsibility to heal those inner subconscious wounds and beliefs that keep us trapped and stuck in the same toxic cycles and patterns.
✨ To have the most INCREDIBLE relationship with yourself built on unshakeable self-trust, self-worth, and inner peace that oozes with high-value energy and confidence.
✨ Walking away from something that makes you small. Blinds you from your own worth and power. Keeps you trapped in a cage when you’re meant to spread your wings and fly.
THIS PROGRAM IS FOR YOU IF:
💖 You become too attached, battle with anxiety, and lose yourself in pleasing behaviors when dating and in relationships.
💖 You’re on the merry-go-round of attracting the same crappy relationships with emotionally unavailable or avoidant men who trigger you and leave you feeling unworthy and not good enough.
💖 Your relationship takes over your life to the point where it affects your work, your health, and your other relationships when you feel unsafe and anxious.
💖 You struggle with setting boundaries, and communicating what you need with potential partners in case you scare them away. You’re constantly questioning what you’re doing and saying because you’re not sure what a secure relationship even looks like.
💖 You value COMMUNITY and would love to surround yourself with other women going through the same thing. You’ve been feeling alone with this for some time and ready to be healed and lifted up by a supportive group of sisters.
WHAT IF YOU COULD…
✨ Stop attracting unavailable partners and actually create, nurture, and keep a relationship that makes you feel safe, loved, and adored?
✨ Understand and manage overthinking, anxiety, and your triggers, so you feel safe and confident to communicate them to partners?
✨ Step into your feminine energy and take up space and develop an inner knowing that you deserve healthy, secure love by being your complete self?
✨ Understand your anxious attachment system, how it’s sabotaging your relationships, and learn how to show up more securely attached in your love life?
✨ Start to develop unshakeable self-trust and worth so that no matter what happens in your relationships, you feel safe and anchored within yourself?
BY THE END OF THE PROGRAM, YOU WILL HAVE THE FOUNDATIONS TO:
🚀 Start having a DEEP understanding of what’s going on within, why you do what you do, and be able to heal subconscious fears of abandonment and rejection so you’re not glued to your phone every second of the day wondering when they’re gonna text you.
🚀 Be more in control over your thoughts and emotions and build the foundations of a healthy, secure relationship where commitment, communication, and consistency is present (and sexy!)
🚀 Feel safe, happy, and confident within yourself no matter what your relationship status is. It no longer defines you. You feel empowered, and safe being completely yourself with potential partners and no longer worry about whether they like you.
BUT DON’T JUST TAKE MY WORD FOR IT.
HERE’S WHAT CLIENTS HAVE EXPERIENCED
THROUGH COACHING:
"I was drawn to Sami and wanted to know how to find that kind of confidence and love for people without fear. I was in several emotionally abusive relationships and I was anxiously attached in relationships.
So I decided to seek coaching from her.
I had so many breakthroughs in developing self love, confidence, love for others without fear or judgement, peace within and FOUND A MAN THAT TREATS ME LIKE A QUEEN.
She gave me the tools that I can continue to use after the program. She's very genuine in her work and knowledgeable.
I would definitely recommend her program to anyone who needs help and support with their self love and relationships."
- Julie
TIME TO GO FROM CRAZY IN LOVE TO SECURE IN LOVE.
MODULE #1: MINDSET CLEANSE 🧠
This is the DEEP work where we will shine a flashlight on those subconscious beliefs that keep you stuck in the same cycles and patterns and BREAK THEM! In this module, we will be putting together your own personalized relationship blueprint.
MODULE #2: TAME YOUR TRIGGERS 💥
Through somatic bodywork and emotional regulation, you will become conscious of how your thoughts and emotions influence your actions and how to get control over this so it’s no longer controlling you.
MODULE #3: NEEDY NO MORE 🦋
We’re done being shamed by others (and ourselves!) for being “too much” and “being needy”. It’s totally normal to feel the need for your partner to demonstrate how much they care about you and to seek validation from your partner but how much is too much and how is it affecting your relationships?
MODULE #4: BOLD BOUNDARIES 💋
Here is where we become best friends with BOUNDARIES. Essential for any healthy relationship to thrive but for some reason, we really struggle to understand them, set them, and even respect them. In this module, we will be understanding boundaries, why they’re important, and how to communicate and negotiate boundaries with others.
MODULE #5: THE POWERFUL FEMININE 💃
We hear so much about the ‘divine’ feminine, so lets explore it and its role in our romantic relationships! When we are driven in our career, business, even motherhood, we step into a powerful masculine energy. This module is about balancing that with powerful feminine energy so we can become MORE, not less.
MODULE #6: BECOMING SECURE 💖
This is where we put all the hard work we’ve done together over the last two months into ACTION as you start to embody that secure version of yourself, and develop intentional daily habits and routines so you can continue your journey in becoming secure in love.
BONUS WORKSHOP #1: Cord Cutting: Release Emotional Attachments Workshop
This is my signature workshop that has helped hundreds of people get over their exes, release unhealthy attachments to others, and shift away from an identity they no longer wanted.
Along with the two-hour workshop, you will also receive a workbook for you to fill out as you watch the training.
In this workshop, we will:
👉🏼 Pull back the curtains around your emotional attachments and energetic cords.
👉🏼 Conduct a cord-cutting ceremony. This ceremony will move you from being in a place of suffering and fear, to a place of love and freedom.
👉🏼 Practice detachment and move on. Once the cord is detached, we need to plug it back into ourselves.
As soon as you sign up for the group program, you will receive lifetime access to this workshop IMMEDIATELY.
BONUS WORKSHOP #2: Understanding Avoidants
At the end of the program, all participants will receive a bonus video module all about understanding AVOIDANTS.
This will help you understand them more, identify the signs sooner when dating, and how to be a safe space for an avoidant partner (it is possible to have a relationship with an avoidant, no matter what other coaches say! But becoming secure within yourself is essential)
In this bonus module, you will learn:
👉🏼 How avoidants see the world and why they go cold and distant
👉🏼 What brings them closer to you and what repels them
👉🏼 How to be in a safe relationship when dating an avoidant
THIS MODULE WILL BE AVAILABLE AT THE END OF THE GROUP PROGRAM.
✨ BONUS MODULES ✨
WHAT YOU GET FROM THE PROGRAM:
🔥 8 x Live Group Coaching Calls
🔥 Community Support via a private FB Group
🔥 Reading Materials
🔥 Weekly Assignments to keep you on track
🔥 Daily Group Accountability
WHEN IS IT?
The next round of the program will be at the end of 2023. Once you’ve joined the waitlist, you will be the first to know all the details and have access to early bird bonuses before anyone else!
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN DOORS RE-OPEN?
1st step: You will be invited to fill out an application form expressing your interest to join the program. There is an option to book a free 30-minute call with me if you'd like to talk about the program, ask questions and see if this is a good fit for you.
2nd step: Once your application has been accepted, you will receive a payment link to secure your spot!
3rd step: Recieve your welcome pack, celebrate the commitment you made to yourself, and get started on the pre-work before the program!
IT SOUNDS GREAT, BUT HONESTLY? I DON’T THINK I’M CAPABLE OF THIS…
I feel you, my love.
I felt the same.
For so long, I thought it was ‘normal’ to be riddled with anxiety every time I’m triggered. To assume the worst in every situation. To put others before myself To be begging partners to stay with me. To act defensively and start a war when conflict arises. For my partners to play games with me.
After years of deep inner self-awareness work and healing, I found that everything I was experiencing was not the case for everyone. It was a result of my conditioning.
I was trapped in a toxic, codependent relationship for 8 years. I tried to leave. Something more powerful than me kept drawing me back. I thought I was stuck in these toxic cycles forever.
When we eventually broke up, I felt like a shell of myself. I had no idea who I was without him and the relationship to define me.
After one year of excruciating heartbreak, anxiety, and living in survival mode, enough was enough. Something needed to change. I couldn’t live swimming in my own internal misery any longer.
It starts with making that decision and commitment to yourself.
After embarking on a self-love journey, traveling the world, and gifting myself the opportunity to start a new life in Thailand, I now show up SECURE IN LOVE for myself and others.
Well, I still have my moments - I’m only human after all ;)
But here’s what I’m saying - if I can do this, you can. You have more power and potential within you than you realize.
Let me help you see that for yourself.
And you don’t have to do this alone! The beauty of a group program to be held, supported, and raised up by other women going through the same thing. Cheering you on. Holding you when things get tough.
